Am finding that it is so very important to watch the words I use. Tone and timing are important, but certain words can trigger arguments and strife in a marriage. When I am on the defensive my words will kindle a fire. When I listen and then respond in a peaceful and non-threatening manner peace can be. So often I blame another for things I myself have incited. So, being quick to listen, slow to speak is right on! Lord, help me exercise this word and keep my home the haven of your peace and the refuge it really needs to be. Progress, not perfection. ttyl!